Caring

A Caring person will not forget about their own needs while they act as a “Rescuer” for others. In essence, they’re very balanced when it comes to social interactions:

They help when they feel their contribution will make a positive difference;

Will allow others to assume responsibility for their own actions; Never promote unhealthy roles such as those in the Drama Triangle;

What Do We Gain Out of This?

In combination with the Drama Triangle exercise, you can do a more in-depth analysis of someone. Do they shift from a healthy to an unhealthy role a lot of times?

Of course, nobody can be a “winner” all the time, but “causing drama” in 70% of cases is not great either.

This is where you can really see if the person you’re analyzing has any deeprooted childhood issues left over. It can also tell you how hard their working to resolve them in their current stage.

Children, on the other hand, are an entirely different case. The young ones are just in their formative stage and could switch from one role to another. The older ones are possibly just starting to make that decision.

They are very susceptible to role models in their formative years, so the best thing to do is lead by example. Become the role model they seek by training to step off the Drama Triangle and onto the Winner side.

We’ll be honest with you: it won’t be easy. But it will definitely be worth the effort. You just need to be honest about what you’re trying to do with those around you.

If you find someone dear to you on the Drama side of things, it would be best to have a basis on which you can explain these theories. Just be careful to explain it to them while there is an unresolved conflict taking place.

Again, some people might find your explanation insulting – but some tough truths need to be told sometimes.

To help you out in your quest of educating people, you can do one simple thing.