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So you have a couple tools her – first of call, on this website you have the profiler that you can use, it’s pretty damn accurate – if you meet a new womanjustfillinthequestionsintheprofileranditwilltellyouwithpretty good accuracy what type she is.

Youalsohavethetimeline,sexlineandrelationshiplinesectionsthatcame before this one. If you’re not sure exactly, you can listen to those and see if you can match her behaviors to one of the descriptions.

Then there are other clues...

LikewithaTester–sheisgoingtohavemoreguysaroundherthanwomen. Some are tricky though, remember this is the one that women fake the most. But Testers will have a shorter attention span prefers changing the topic rapidly, be more into multitasking, texting people while she’s having aconversationwith someoneelse(guysorgirls)TheTesterwill usuallybe OK with compliments, more unaffected by them than anything else. While an Investor takes a compliment more seriously – it’s a bigger risk but if it works there’s more of a reward.

Then there’s Denier and Justifiers… one is her religious upbringing, which isn’t always accurate but it’s a great clue if you don’t have anything else – a Denier will usually still be consistent with her religious upbringing while a Justifier won’t be religious at all or even rebel against her upbringing.

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Here’s a good one – her health and safety – Deniers are usually much more carefulwithherhealthandsafety–lesslikelytobesmokers,lesslikelikely to do drugs… Anotherone –ifa girl has atattoo, especiallyifshehas more than one tattoo – that’s a GREAT sign she’s a Justifier. Justifiers are more likely to take risks with safety – they will go somewhere with a guy they don’t know very well – they’ll get in a car with him on the first date; she’ll even go on vacation with him for the first date sometimes. Also Justifiers are more comfortable with being touched aggressively by guys, Deniers aren’t. Also – how comfortable they are with sex talk. Justifiers will talk about sex openly when they first meet someone, while Denierswill get shy and embarrassed.

And finally; Realists and Idealists. Realists are more careers focused – her schooling or job is her priority… Don’t get that confused with flaking, Realists and Idealists both flake – Realists flake because of work and Idealists flake to hang out with another guy. Realists believe that women are equals with men and can be just as powerful and successful, and Idealists think that men and women should have different roles. Realists are also the type to take care of other people in their life, like their family and friends, while Idealists usually end up with other people pampering her… think little princess.

Finding out her type is great because it lends itself to a natural curiosity – whichresultsineasyconversation. Italsohelpsgettingyouinterestedand listening to a woman properly – instead of coming off indifferent or bored.

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It can even be a fun game – where you’re interested – and you’re excited to get more information from them. And once you uncover the clues, you begintounderstandwhattheywant,theirmotivationsinlife,andofcourse what they find attractive. And you can then emphasize those parts of your personality that you know they will respond to.

For example, if you are with a girl who is an Investor – it’s VERY scary to an Investor if a guy is flirting really hard and making her seem special right away. A Tester is fine with that – she does it herself all day long, so she knows the game. But an Investor will lose a LOT of trust if you start showing that she’s special too soon – you need to make her invest.

And as you get more practice in identifying types, you’ll start to be able to do it faster. At first, you’ll be looking for clues, and thinking a bit about the system, but then later on once you get more experience, you’ll start to be able to do it much faster, and you’ll realize how accurate and powerful the model really is.

AndonceyoubecomeaguythatKNOWSwomenlikethis–whocantellthe different types, and do it quickly – is an expert on women.

Think about scientists studying birds. The very first thing that they do is classify them into different types. That allows them to understand their behavior and make all kinds of predictions on how that bird will act in

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differentsituations. Forexampletheymightknowthatonetypeofbirdwill flysouthinthewinter,whileanotheronemightnot. Andtheycanlookand say, that bird is NOT going to work on building his nest right now because in 3 days he’s going to fly south.

Withwomen–youmightbeatabartalkingtoawomanandfindoutshe’sa Denier and KNOW that she isn’t very likely to go home with you that night. Thatwayyoucanjustgethernumber,andnotrisktherejectionoftryingto push her to leave with you right then and there.

Many successful companies give their employees personality tests before hiring them. The reason why is because it gives so much predictive information before the company can decide to hire them or not.

It’s the same way with women – once you know what type you get along with the best – you can shortcut the entire process. So you can talk to a woman for a couple minutes and know exactly how everything will turn out if you get involved with her. It can literally save you years of possible heartache and frustration being with the wrong woman.

Alright well time to test your knowledge again… and you might want to review this section and the three sections before it before moving on, because I’m going to test your mind reading skills… alright good luck.

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This testing process will also solidify the entire model into your mind, and ifyouarestillabitconfusedwiththedifferenttypesandhowtheyallwork, this will more than likely make it much clearer for you. I know personally I work really well with real life examples, so this is where I really enjoy beginning to apply the model.

So …..

FiguringTester / Investorout if she is a Tester or Investor is actually the most challenging one out of the set, because as mentioned before girls who are Testers will actlikeInvestors,andkeepthefacttheyareTesterssecret.So,thisdynamic can take a little bit of time to determine.

1. You look at a girl’s Facebook, and lots of guys are leaving flirtatious comments on her page. Tester or Investor?

2. If you knew a girl as part of your social circle, you see each other occasionally as you have friends in common, and you hear things about hersuchasthatsheisplayingthefield.Whichtypedoyouthinksheis?

3. Ok. A girl you met appears to only have female friends. Is she a Tester or Investor?

4. If you meet a girl online, is she on average more likely to be a Tester or

Investor?

5. If you are hanging with a girl and she’s messaging people a fair bit, and although she tells you they are girls she is texting, you feel intuitively that it’s actually to guys. Tester or Investor?

6. You know a girl reasonable well and she mentions only having had a couple of relationships that were fairly long (years in fact), what’s the signal there?

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7.When she talks about dating and finding a guy, she seems to care less about meeting that “perfect guy” and more about having fun, what do you think?

8.This girl you really like has a boyfriend, and complains about him a fair bit, but doesn’t actually leave him, Tester or Investor?

9.This girl you like seems to have quite a few guys hanging around her as “orbiters”–guyswhosheseemstobestringingalongkeepingasfriends or flirting with – and she seems to have quite a few male options.