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Hopeful Romantic (NDI)

What to expect

The Romantic is very sensual and passionate. She’ll have her guard up at first, but her desire for a connection will win in the end. Once you get naked together, expect her to develop strong feelings for you. Be careful not to take advantage of this.

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The Hopeful Romantic is vulnerable because she is very emotional and wants to be loved. Treat her with respect, but also have a very strong sexual intention. When you can balance warmth and respect with sexual passion, you will overcome her initial resistance. She will see your passion as love, as long as you’re not pushy.

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The Romantic probably doesn’t have bad self-esteem issues. She knows she’s desirable, which is why she protects herself. Her biggest turn-on is intimacy itself. She sees your activities, even the freaky shit, especially the freaky shit, as sacred and special, because you and she are bonding. Think of sex as you

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and she opening up to each other and expressing your true desires in a sacred, safe space.

Submissive

Once you become intimate, the Romantic lets go easily. It’s her nature. She is very submissive already. This means that if you don’t know how to take control and dominate her, she will get bored and turned off. Expect her to follow your lead, do what you tell her, and work to please you. Because she is so submissive, you must be the man!

Satisfied

If she feels that you are not present and totally focused on her because you care about her, she won’t enjoy sex with you. Plain and simple.

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Cinderella (NJI)

What to expect

The Cinderella is also very passionate, and it’s this passion that will lead her to sleep with you relatively quickly and easily. It’s not that she’s “easy,” – don’t diminish or demean her sexuality simply because she, like you, enjoys sex and intimacy.

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Always convey there is the potential of your relationship evolving into something that will last a very long time. When you do this, she will open herself to you. As always, treat sex as something that brings you closer together, not something that she does for you, or that you get from her.

Sexy

Be very passionate. When she turns you on, breathe heavy, look at her body like you want to devour her, grab her and hold her like she’s the last woman you’ll ever touch. Use specific dirty talk, “I love how your fat ass bounces off my dick. God damn your skin is so sexy, I just want to lick every inch of you.

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Submissive

Make her feel submissive by leading the process. Tell her what to do, using a warm, commanding tonality. Tell her she’s your sexy little woman. Tell her to get on top so you can watch her tits bounce. Don’t hesitate to bend her over, hold her down and kiss her all over, and be vocal about what turns you on about her.

Satisfied

If you follow the above advice, she will be satisfied. The Cinderella is already a highly sexual woman. Pleasure – receiving and giving – comes naturally to her. Pay attention to how she responds to different things you do, and allow your sexual relationship to evolve on it’s own. Express yourself, and be passionate, and have fun!

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Private Dancer (TDR)

What to expect

The Private Dancer is very picky, and will move on if she isn’t sexually satisfied. The key to satisfying her is conveying that she turns you on more than any other woman can. From the very start, focus on what makes her unique as a person.

Safe

The Tester – Denier combination means she will be a little aloof or flakey at first. You’ll have to be careful not to push too hard when you are setting up a date or getting her alone. Keep a very light attitude while staying persistent. If she senses that you want her too much, she will get nervous about being alone with you.

Sexy

Her unique ability to turn her on is what makes her feel sexy. Point out what is different about her. Tell her you love how she moves, “baby you have this amazing walk – I’ve never seen another woman move like that. I get turned on just looking at you.”

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Submissive

When she makes an effort to arouse and pleasure you, use language to remind her that she is doing it to earn your desire. Get her to do something – it could be something she wears that looks sexy, or giving you a handjob, or sucking her own nipples while you watch. Reward this by unleashing all your passion on, er in, her.

Satisfied

If she doesn’t feel like she arouses you more than any other woman can, she will get bored. That’s what turns her on – feeling unique and powerful when it comes to arousing her man.

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Seductress (TJR)

What to expect

She will be a lot of fun, if you’re man enough to handle her. She’s wild and knows what she wants. She communicates clearly, but gets bored fast.

Safe

The Seductress doesn’t have much fear of men. The only way you’ll scare her or make her nervous is by being too needy and intense. Don’t try to sweet-talk her, or talk about how special she is and how badly you want to sleep with her. Keep a relaxed, playful attitude, as if you would be totally ok if you didn’t fuck her.

Sexy

The Seductress already feels sexy, but what really turns her on is chasing and conquering a man. You must convey that she makes you lose control, as if it were in spite of yourself. Don’t talk about sex, or try to initiate sex. Trust me, she’ll make a move. As you get more aroused, say something along the lines of, “You are too sexy – I can’t even think straight when you touch me like that. You’re like kryptonite haha!” Give her the sense that you weren’t even

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thinking about sex, and she took you over by turning you on as only she can. This is the kind of woman that will try to give you a blowjob while you’re on the phone!

Submissive

The Seductress likes to feel dominated, as well as to dominate you. You can’t come weak if you are going to take the lead. Often, men try to be dominant in their language, but the woman doesn’t do what she is told. This is very bad, because it makes you look silly. The reason a woman will resist is if she feels there is no love or passion in your dominance. She feels like you’re just telling her what to do. When you take the lead, and take control of her body, do it with love and passion. Pick her up and put her back on the kitchen counter, because she turns you on, not just because you want to make her do things for you.

Satisfied

The Seductress knows how to satisfy herself. Seeing you satisfied is her biggest turn on. Always convey, even if it’s not totally true at first, that she has fully satisfied you. Pay attention to her communication – the way her body responds, as well as what she asks for. Most men are not attentive sexually. If you are different, she will crave opportunities to conquer you, over and over again.

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Connoisseur (NDR)

What to expect

The Connoisseur is the pickiest of all the types. She is looking hard at your long-term potential, she has a strong resistance to sleeping with men too quickly, and she is very practical and realistic (so don’t think you can smoothtalk your way into her pants).

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Safety is a major concern for the Connoisseur. First, she must feel that you like her because of who she is as a person – you’re attracted to her personality as much as her body. Second, she must feel like you are an ethical, good man, who will not try to hurt her emotionally or physically. Third, she must see you as a man with a future. To her, sex is a risk, and she doesn’t want to invest in a loser.

Sexy

The Connoisseur feels sexy when she feels close to you and desired by you. She may actually shy away from sex talk, because she has a practical mind. She’ll be thinking more about the logistics and problem-solving of sex. During sex, don’t worry about using descriptive sex talk, just have lots of eye contact, hold her passionately, and express your pleasure through moans and groans.

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Submissive

Her biggest turn-on is her sexual competence. She is a giver by nature, and feels sexy when she knows she’s pleasing you. Teach her how to stroke you, suck you, ride you, what clothes to wear for you, etc. Always be very

reassuring. Your dominance should be warm and sweet – she is your little girl.

Satisfied

Intimacy and feeling like sex is bringing you closer together will keep this woman satisfied. Also, make sure that she feels like she satisfies you. That’s what turns her on.