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Text 4 . The 20 Bad Habits. Challenges in Interpersonal Behaviour.

1. Winning too much: The need to win at all costs and in all situations.

2. Adding too much value: The overwhelming desire to add your 2 cents to every discussion.

3. Passing judgment: The need to rate others and impose your standards on them.

4. Making destructive comments: The needles sarcasm and cutting remarks that we think make us witty.

5. Starting with No, But, However: The overuse of these negative qualifiers which secretly say to everyone that I’m right and you’re wrong.

6. Telling the world how smart we are: The need to show people we’re smarter than they think we are.

7. Speaking when angry. Using emotional volatility as a management tool.

8. Negativity or “Let me explain why that won’t work”: The need to share our negative thoughts even when we weren’t asked.

9. Withholding information: Refusing to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others.

10.Failing to give proper recognition: The inability to give praise and reward.

11. Claiming credit that we don’t deserve: The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success.

12. Making excuses: The need to reposit our annoying behaviour as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for it.

13. Clinging to the past: The need to deflect blame away from ourselves and onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone else.

14. Playing favorites: Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly.

15. Refusing to express regret: The inability to take responsibility for our actions, admit we’re wrong, or recognize how our actions affect others.

16. Not listening: The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues.

17. Failing to express gratitude: The most basic form of bad manners.

18. Punishing the messenger: The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually only trying to help us.

19. Passing the buck: The need to blame everyone but ourselves.

20. An excessive need to be “me”: Exalting our faults as virtues simply because they’re who we are.

Questions to Unit 8

1. Why is it important to create the “right” morale in a company?

2. What are the ways which can help to ensure social and psychological climate inside a company?

3. What is the difference between “attitude” and “behaviour”?

4. What things can help a company to form the trustful internal relations?

5. How can misunderstanding arise in a company?

6. What difficulties is a first-class manager often confronted with?

7. What are the main guidelines to manage your self?

8. Why is the ability to monitor your time important for a manager?

9. How can you explain the rule “communicate as much as you can”? Why is the ability to communicate so important for managers?

10. How can you recognize what’s important from what is urgent?

11. What does it mean “acknowledge accomplishments?”

12. Why are some employees “difficult”?

13. Should you listen to gossip and rumor? What would be your actions in such situations?

14. Explain the rule “Draw out the reason behind the behaviour”?

15. Name and explain habits that can complicate interpersonal relations?