Добавил:
Upload Опубликованный материал нарушает ваши авторские права? Сообщите нам.
Вуз: Предмет: Файл:
МР новые.docx
Скачиваний:
7
Добавлен:
25.11.2019
Размер:
142.01 Кб
Скачать

2. Read the stories and say what pedagogical wisdoms each story contains.

1) A Coffee Quote

I heard there was this wise teacher who took all his students for coffee. They were surprised that all the cups on the table were different. They all took a cup and started drinking their coffee, each looking at the cups of others. The teacher let them do that for a while and then said: “Do you notice your behaviour? You all are looking at each other´s coffee cup and I can see some of you with the chipped ones are even envious of the finer cups of others. Is this not so?” The students agreed, amused of their own behavior. “You may have wondered why you all had different cups, but I put them here on purpose. You see, they represent life itself. Life is like that coffee and the cups are like the physical circumstances of your life. You all got the same thing in your cups – coffee. And yet you cannot truly enjoy it in your envy of another´s cup. It’s just the same with life. You forget to enjoy your own life when you concentrate on envying the circumstances of someone else´s life. So now, close your eyes, and taste your own coffee. Really taste it. And tell me – did it matter from which cup it came from?”

They all sat in silence for a while, savouring their coffee. A sleepy fly buzzed past, a bird sang in the tree. And it really did not matter one bit from which coffee cup they drank.

2) The Shout

One day, a wise teacher asked his students, “Why is at the time someone angry, he will speak loudly and even shout?” One of the students, after thinking quiet long, raised his hand and then answered, “Because at that time he has lost his patience; that's why he shouts.” The teacher asked again, “Just at that moment, the person he speaks to is in front of him. Why should he shout? Can't he speak softly?” Most of the students gave the answers, which in their consideration were correct. However, there was no delightful answer.

The teacher then said, “When there are two people in an angry situation, the distance between their hearts becomes so far although physically they are close. Therefore, they have to shout to reach the quite far distance. The strange thing is the louder they shout the angrier they are. In that case, the distance of their hearts is automatically further. That's why, they then have toshout louder and louder again.” Next, the teacher asked, “Contrary, what will happen if there are two people who fall in love each other? They never shout. Whenever they speak, their voices are so soft and gentle. No matter how soft the voices are, both of them can hear each other so clearly. Why is that?” the teacher asked his student again while watching at his students.

They were seen to think very deeply, but none of them had the courage to give the answer. The teacher explained, “Because their hearts are so close, their hearts have no distance. Until at last there is no single word need to be said. One look is quite enough for them to understand on what they want to say.”

The teacher still continued, “When you are angry, don't let your heart create any distance. At that time, don't say any words, which possibly invite distance between your hearts. As possible as you can, keep in silent is the wise thing to do, because time will help you to hold your anger.”