- •Contents
- •Illinois man claims largest known diamond 4
- •Infidelity epidemic sweeping cheating britain 35
- •25 Easy ways to knock years off your body 52
- •Is Your Dream Job Really Out There? 74
- •Illinois man claims largest known diamond
- •Why we're slaves to the latest fashion fads
- •World’s most beautiful girls live in Stockholm, Sweden
- •Homeless billionaire gives away his 3-billion-dollar fortune
- •Why do foreign tourists hate Russians on holidays?
- •Chinese prepare to live in hell for 2008 Summer Olympics
- •Arctic region likely to become the center of World War III
- •Five terrible atrocities against women around the world
- •Slavery continues to prosper worldwide
- •Stop the poverty to stop the terrorism
- •Questions and Tasks:
- •Air rage caused by oxygen deprivation
- •Questions and Tasks:
- •Japan still unable to cut national suicide rate with over 33,000 deaths a year
- •Questions and Tasks:
- •Children do imitate violence they see on tv
- •Mum to mum special: We must beat the bullies
- •What to do if your child's a bully
- •Teens’ problems: Curfew
- •Looking for love on dating websites has its own hidden dangers
- •Best of mates
- •Infidelity epidemic sweeping cheating britain
- •Brothers and sisters are doing it for themselves
- •Will this man make you happy?
- •Women who dislike football are stupid
- •Pet therapy wins more popularity whereas Russia uses only leeches
- •25 Easy ways to knock years off your body
- •Top 5 scientists killed by their experiments
- •Humans may eventually conquer ocean world after David Blaine’s underwater stunt
- •Dolphins used to look like humans and lived in Atlantis
- •So .. Is there a god?
- •Legends about vampires and werewolves still live today
- •The Nostradamus prophecies popular in every century
- •Rambo's hardest mission .. Saving his 3 girls from perils of showbiz
- •Is Your Dream Job Really Out There?
- •Fed up with your job? ..Get a new one!
- •No ifs... No butts: mp's vote for total smoking ban
- •World on drugs
- •Truth and lies about alcoholism
Best of mates
MORE people than ever before are living on their own. This week Dr Miriam explains why that need not mean a lonely existence, as long as we recognise the importance of making and keeping friends.
THIRTY-something men are twice as likely as women to be living on their own.Men in this age group tend to earn more than women, which means they are more likely to be able to afford a place of their own, say Edinburgh University researchers. But that's not the whole story.
Women are now more emotionally confident than their mothers and are less willing to keep a man in their lives at any price. They've discovered there are worse things than being on your own and one of them is being trapped in a bad relationship. The result is that men who might have shared a home with a submissive partner a generation ago now find they are on their own.
Making friends
ON average we make more than 400 friendships in a lifetime but only one in 12 will last. And, of these, only five will ever be considered true friends. I'm not surprised. Friendship is as special as falling in love and can last a good deal longer. It's certainly as precious.
My gut feeling is that there isn't much difference between the sexes when it comes to making friends. Men value a best mate as much as women, even if they are not so ready to acknowledge it. But when it comes to maintaining a friendship, men don't put in the same kind of work as women.
Working at it
BY work, I mean solicitude, helpfulness, kindness and sacrifice. How many times have you heard a man boast he only makes telephone calls when he has something to say? It is as if arranging where or when to meet was the only reason language was invented.
Friendships can endure even when huge physical distances separate the people involved. But it can't survive on silence. Well-meaning thoughts that never get spoken aloud can wither the closest companionship; just as "I-meant-to-get-in-touch" intentions that are never translated into action can kill it through neglect.
Calling someone to say hello is the verbal equivalent of a hug. And we all need plenty of those in order to feel valued and appreciated. We were made for social contact - our mental well-being suffers if we don't get enough. Psychologists believe it's a fundamental need.
Trusting people
BUT we don't have to be married and or in a one-to-one relationship. We may strive for that, but we can get along fine without it. But we do need people we trust who trust us back. People we can confide in without being judged, who can put up with our moods without bearing a grudge, who share our disappointment when we fail, and cheer when we succeed. People who know our faults and still like us.
Love at first sight might exist, but there's no such a thing as friendship at first sight. It's built over time and develops through thought, understanding and tolerance. And it's perhaps the most equal of relationships because we get out of it what we put in: a one-sided friendship is no friendship at all. Making friends is a survival strategy and we should all become students of it.
Questions and Tasks:
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Whom can you call a “friend”?
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Why does the notion of friendship vary from culture to culture?
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Do you think men friendship differs from women friendship? Why?
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How to make true friends?
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Is it difficult for rich people to make friends? Why?
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It’s better to make friends in business than to have business with friends? What do you think?
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What happens when the person who has shared your secrets, hopes and troubles betrays your trust?