Appearances can be deceiving

Sometimes Looks can be Deceiving as saying goes by" You cant judge a book by its cover". But seriously, we can never really tell about a person from what you merely see in the outside. Looks can be deceiving. Sometimes people are judged by the way they look without thinking that finding a person with good heart is more important than finding a person with the right look. At certain times I am honestly guilty too about sizing up people on the basis of external appearance. But now that im getting older doing so doesnt feel right anymore. Along with it also comes the acceptance that while not all of us are visually stimulating this isnt something that showed being a person to the pits of despair. Most likely, one might just be even more gifted with something else, Intelligent perhas, An excellent singing voice or a razor sharp with. Like everything in life, no one has it all. we all have our strengths and different weaknesses. We all are gifted, special and unique. Its up to us to appreciate what God given to us. we dont need to be everything for everyone. Besides there will ALWAYS be peole who will take us for who we are and these are the PEOPLE who are trully matter.. As a rule of thumb says " TREAT EVERYONE AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU"...

If at first you don’t succeed, never give up

Many important lessons are learned from failures. After reading this article, the trips you take back to the drawing board will seem shorter and easier, maybe even like a trip to the beach.We can't always be winners the first time around. It takes a while to learn, to experiment and to fine–tune. We often get frustrated; we may even entertain giving up because of the idea of failing. But, as the saying goes, "When the going gets tough, the tough get going." And the tough sometimes go back to the drawing board several times before getting it right, before they reach their goals and can celebrate their successes.Jawwad Ahmed Farid, FSA, is one of the tough ones. He says that going back to the drawing board is what true success is all about, and that failure, with the comparative isolation it can bring, is a great time to re–examine your life and to decide if this is what you want out of it."A total system reboot is also a good opportunity to take an inventory of your resolve, your commitment and your drive to succeed," says Farid. "Failure is a more discerning and forgiving teacher than success. Ounce for ounce, you come out leaner, meaner and wiser.A successful entrepreneur, Farid sincerely believes that failing or falling short sometimes is essential to personal growth and attaining success."At heart I am a builder and making companies is what I am wired to do best," he says. "The reasoning and the logic don't matter. What matters is that given enough time, enough attempts (failures if you will), a little cash and a lot of heart, most entrepreneurs finally manage to figure it out. The ones who make it are the ones who keep trying until they do."