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It is clear that not all adults outgrow even the first level, the premoral level.

Dictators who rule by brute force, who punish in accordance with their personal

whims, operate at the premoral level.

Parental Style: Becoming an Effective Parent

Whether it be psychosexual, psychosocial, cognitive, or moral, development is

greatly influenced what parents say and do. The general approach taken toward

child rearing by a parent is called parental style. Research conducted by developmental psychologists such as Stanley Coopersmith and Diane Baumrind, both

affiliated with the University of California, suggests that there are two primary

dimensions of parental style. These are: (1) authoritarian-permissive and (2)

accepting-rejecting.

The authoritarian-permissive dimension consists of bipolar opposites. At

the one extreme, parents who manifest an authoritarian style are highly controlling,

demanding, possessive, and overprotective. At the other extreme, parents

who manifest a permissive style are easygoing, overly agreeable, detached, and

easily manipulated by the child or adolescent. Such parents tend to avoid setting

well-defined limits on behavior.

The accepting-rejecting dimension also consists of bipolar opposites. At

the one extreme, parents who manifest an accepting style provide the child with

unconditional love, meaning that love is not withdrawn when a child’s behavior

Is unacceptable. The child is loved for being himself or herself, and affection

does not stop just because the parent is sometimes disappointed in something the

child has done. There is much confusion about this particular point. Unconditional

love does not mean unconditional acceptance of all behavior. It is possible

to reject unacceptable behavior without rejecting the whole person.

Parents who manifest a rejecting style provide the child with either conditional

love or no love at all. Conditional love is characterized by providing the

tokens of love (e.g., kisses, hugs, and praise) only when they have been earned by

certain behaviors such as getting good grades, doing chores, and being polite. A

parent who provides no love seldom, if ever, brings forth demonstrations of love

In either words or actions. The child acquires the impression that the parent

wishes he or she had never been born.

The two dimensions generate five distinct categories of parental style:

(1) authoritarian-accepting, (2) permissive-accepting, (3) authoritarian-rejecting,

(4) permissive-rejecting, and (5) democratic-accepting. The first four styles are all

flawed, and each of them is likely to generate difficulties in the child’s adjustment

to life. The fifth style is the optimal style. The word democratic is used to indicate

an optimal midpoint on the authoritarian-permissive dimension. Parents who

manifest a democratic style give a child real options. The child is allowed to make

choices and important decisions. However, the democratic parent also sets realistic

limits. If the child’s choices are unacceptable and likely to create eventual problems

for the child, then the democratic parent draws a line and is capable of being firm.

Research suggests that a parent who manifests a democratic-accepting style

tends to induce optimal social behaviors in the child. This style tends to nurture the

intelligence, creativity, emotional adjustment, and self-esteem of the child.

TEST

1. The basic unit of heredity is the

a. chromosome

b. gene

c. trisomy 21 pattern

d. ribonucleic acid (RNA) anomaly

2. From seven weeks to birth, the new being is called

a. a fetus

b. an embryo

c. a zygote

d. a neonate

3. According to Freud’s usage, psychosexual energy is referred to as

a. libido

b. erotic ambivalence

c. metabolism

d. genital potency

4. The Oedipus complex is associated with what psychosexual stage?

a. The oral stage

b. The anal stage

c. The genital stage

d. The latency stage

5. A toddler with a particular positive psychosocial trait will be interested in

exploring the immediate world and display an interest in novel stimulation.

What is this trait?

a. Autonomy

b. Identity

c. Intimacy

d. Generativity

6. An older person with a particular positive psychosocial trait can face approaching

death with a certain amount of acceptance. What is this trait?

a. Generativity

b. Isolation

c. Identity

d. Integrity

7. What method did Piaget use to study the child’s mind?

a. The experimental method

b. The survey method

c. The phenomenological method

d. The correlational method

8. Magical thinking, anthropomorphic thinking, and egocentrism are associated

with what stage of cognitive development?

a. Trust versus mistrust

b. The sensorimotor stage

c. The formal operations stage

d. The preoperational stage

9. What level of moral development is associated with a law and order orientation?

a. The premoral level

b. The preconventional level

c. The conventional level

d. The principled level

10. Research suggests that a parent who manifests what style tends to induce optimal

social behaviors in the child?

a. Authoritarian-accepting

b. Democratic-accepting

c. Permissive-accepting

d. Authoritarian-rejecting

True or False

1. T F If a fertilized egg contains an XX chromosome pattern, the resulting

infant will be a female.

2. T F According to Freud, the five stages of psychosexual development are:

(1) oral, (2) anal, (3) phallic, (4) latency, and (5) genital.

3. T F In psychosocial development, the stage of identity versus role confusion

is associated with old age.

4. T F Cognitive development focuses primarily on the emotional adjustment

of the child.

5. T F An authoritarian parent tends to be easygoing, overly agreeable,

detached, and easily manipulated by the child or adolescent.

Self-check

• define developmental psychology;

• describe fetal development;

• explain Freud’s theory of psychosexual development;

• specify key features of Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development;

• identify the four stages in Piaget’s theory of cognitive development;

• identify the three levels in Kohlberg’s theory of moral development;

• describe the two basic dimensions of parental style.

Match the terms with their definitions

a)

developmental psychology

the kind of verbal utterances in which words are left out, but the meaning is usually clear

grasping reflex

the internally programmed growth of a child

maturation

an infant’s response in turning toward the source of touching that occurs anywhere around his or her mouth

rooting reflex

an infant’s clinging response to a touch on the palm of his or her hand

telegraphic speech

the study of changes that occur as an individual matures

b)

Accommodation

a specific time in development when certain skills or abilities are most easily learned

Assimilation

inherited tendencies or responses that are displayed by newborn animals when they encounter new stimuli in their environment

Conservation

a young child’s inability to understand another person’s perspective

critical period

the principle that a given quantity does not change when its appearance is changed

Egocentric

the intellectual ability of a child to picture something in his or her mind

Imprinting

a child’s realization that an object exists even when he or she cannot see or touch it

object permanence

the adjustment of one’s schemas to include newly observed events and experiences

representational thought

the process of fitting objects and experiences into one’s schemas

schema

a conceptual framework a person uses to make sense of the world

c)

authoritarian family

children’s play that involves assuming adult roles, thus enabling the child to experience different points of view

democratic/authoritative family

the process of redirecting sexual impulses into learning tasks

Identification

the process by which a child adopts the values and principles of the same-sex parent

permissive/laissez-faire family

the process of learning the rules of behavior of the culture within which an individual is born and will live

role taking

children and adolescents have the final say; parents are less controlling and have a nonpunishing, accepting attitude toward children

Socialization

children and adolescents participate in decisions affecting their lives

Sublimation

parents attempt to control, shape, and evaluate the behavior and attitudes of their children and adolescents in accordance with a set code of conduct