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Money

Someone may say that you are nobody without money, and this might be absolutely true because nowadays money is the biggest power in the world. Some people judge by social status and if you are not able to gain money they might consider you a loser. Each man tries to earn as much money as he can, but there are some people who just try to survive. Better to have neither very much nor little money, but as much as we need. The importance of money has increased so much in our society that they have come to govern our life. We think everything is related to money. For any activity we establish a price, whether it’s to pay or to collect it. Here we have a psychological analysis of the way in which money changes our lives. Money affects people so that they become ‘perverts’ and sometimes even bad. This fact seems to be valid for all people regardless of generation. It is a mentality that is perpetuated. But I think things are not quite so. I think that money helps a man to be exactly what he is, they show the personality of a man and help him to express himself. If someone has got used to deal only with bosses, leaders and important people or was helped to win a position when he has money he does the same thing. He has money and position and encounters difficulties to relate with ordinary people. That’s why he is seen as a receiver, yet he has only followed his wishes. As a personality type he obtained what he wanted and most probable he was able to achieve all he wanted from adults. On the opposite side there is the one who always loved people, entertainment, and his work involved more contact with people, and if he has money he is still trying to have fun. Of course, he will go out less than before for a beer, for a ride or an entertainment. He will rather prefer snowmobiling or skiing. In fact, he is the same man, just that money allows him to have access to other kind of entertainment. There is the anxious man, the fatalistic, the one who has always had negative expectations. It is the person who feels miserly without money. In fact, he pays the right price for what he gets, but he does not try to be generous. No matter of how much money he has, he takes much care to save money and fears not to go financially off balance spending his money for his partner, for his children or for his relatives. He tries to keep distance from complications. This kind of man tries to have a job at a company or in a corporation. He knows he has a good salary, which will increase steadily, and he will get a position gradually to become better and feel safe.

Gaining money easily There are some categories of ‘personality types or types of relationships: - when gadgets stimulate reveries - when one has the need to invest in drinking - insomnia, people are worried about diseases - tips, caused by psychological reasons, rather than arithmetic -Attention to the psychological threshold! Such people as those described above have formed their personality, as each of us, until the age of 9. What they are doing now and what we do in general is to practice solutions learned in our childhood. His way to be and character traits will not change, only the methods to achieve his goals change. For example, I saw a 15-year old boy trying to earn money. He had seen his older brothers work hard for their living, but he did not like the idea, so he gathered some cases. He made some holes in them and went to the market. He sat near a young woman who was selling chickens. The woman shouted “Come on and buy little chickens.” So, the boy shouted “Come on and buy new boxes.” Adults were amused and bought the boxes. His brothers tried to make him understand that he has to work, to gain experience before ending his studies but, in vain, he keeps to gain money in easy ways. And being very creative, he manages.

Having much money

Of course not everyone can have much money. But what would be the right attitude? No matter of how much money one has he will have to be balanced. He must work paying attention to three important areas of life: work, social relationships and intimate relationships. Of course, these three can rarely work very, very well, but it is very important not to neglect any of them. There are people who pay the highest attention to work, forgetting about the intimate relationship and friends. Such a person believes he is not very much worthy unless he works or has a lot of money. He has no patience with people and feels like wasting time when you talk to him. The risk is taken. He became a workaholic. But this is not because he wants more money, but because he has always considered that he must sacrifice himself to achieve something. He probably preferred to learn more than to play in his childhood. He needs to belong to an important group and be recognized. He needs to be appreciated. He is often stressed and he is afraid of failure and sometimes he does not trust his abilities. In fact all people have feelings of inferiority and struggle constantly to achieve superiority, that give them fuel and energy to develop. The desire for superiority is intended to overcome the difficulties, to deal with people, to signify, to compensate, to be perfect, to be better, to have power, prestige, to feel secure and to adapt. Well, all these actions can be provided by money. And so money becomes a tool that allows a man to be what he is. And so he can understand why a man can relate better with money than with any other person.