10. Истина

В главе 1 мы заявили, что не знаем никакой другой истины, кроме наших собственных реальностей. Возможно, это утверждение было одной из наших хорошо известных “терапевтических выдумок”.

Поскольку вы прочитали уже так много, вам, может быть, интересно, что у авторов в общей сложности имеется четверо биологических детей, еще четверо детей наших жен, и мы не ограничимся этим. Будучи отцами, мы хотим знать некие истины, чтобы преподать их своим детям. Вот пять таких истин, приобретенных нами в жизни!

Если сомневаешься, иди вперед.

Будь упорным и не ленись.

Если у тебя что-то чешется, почешись!

Ты никогда не будешь слишком стар для того, чтобы сидеть на коленях у своего отца.

Никогда не заканчивай писать книгу в полнолуние.

Вы, может быть, сомневаетесь, считаем ли мы действительно эти истины жизненно важными. Сомневайтесь!

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