- •1. "Be not afraid of greatness: some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them."
- •2. Think of a time when you had high expectations or hopes about smth or someone. Or time when someone had high hopes for you.
- •3. The Great Lakes, the Great Wall, The great Barrier Reef: have you been there, which places would you most like to visit, what other places in the world you most line to visit?
- •4. Collection
- •5. "Children should be seen and not heard," "Silence is golden," "Be grateful for small mercies."
- •6. Do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable around very quiet people?
- •7. Can you imagine not being able to speak? How would it affect your life?
- •8. A short anecdote from my childhood
- •9. About language
5. "Children should be seen and not heard," "Silence is golden," "Be grateful for small mercies."
"Children should be seen and not heard" suggests that children should behave quietly and respectfully, not drawing unnecessary attention. It might be said in a formal or adult-focused setting, such as during an important meeting or event where children are present.
"Silence is golden" means that silence can be valuable and calming, especially in noisy or stressful environments. This might be used after a long, chaotic day when someone finally enjoys peace and quiet.
"Be grateful for small mercies" encourages appreciating even small blessings or positive outcomes in difficult situations. For instance, if someone narrowly avoids a car accident, they might use this phrase to express relief.
6. Do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable around very quiet people?
Whether I feel comfortable or uncomfortable around very quiet people really depends on the situation and my mood. In some environments, being around quiet people can feel calming and even refreshing. For example, if I’m in a peaceful setting like a library or outdoors, I might actually enjoy their presence because it creates a sense of tranquility. Quiet people often bring a sense of balance, especially if the surroundings are noisy or chaotic.
However, in other situations, it can feel a bit awkward. If I’m in a social setting where everyone is talking and interacting, but a quiet person doesn’t engage, it might make me feel unsure of how to approach them. I start wondering if they’re shy, uncomfortable, or just uninterested, and that can create a bit of tension.
It also depends on my mood. If I’m feeling energetic or talkative, I might find it challenging to connect with a very quiet person. On the other hand, if I’m feeling more introspective or tired, their quietness might match my own energy, and I’d feel more comfortable around them.
Overall, I think it’s about finding a balance and respecting the other person’s nature. Quiet people often have a lot to share once you take the time to get to know them, and that’s something I try to remember.
7. Can you imagine not being able to speak? How would it affect your life?
Imagining a life where I’m unable to speak is challenging because so much of my daily communication relies on my voice. It would affect my life in many ways, both practically and emotionally.
On a practical level, it would make expressing my thoughts and feelings much harder. Simple things like asking for help, participating in conversations, or teaching others would require alternative methods, such as writing, sign language, or using technology. While these methods are effective, they would take more time and might not always convey emotions as clearly as spoken words.
Emotionally, it would feel isolating at times. Verbal communication is such a natural way to connect with others, and without it, I might feel misunderstood or left out in social situations. It could also be frustrating not to respond quickly or to share my thoughts spontaneously.
That said, it would also encourage me to listen more and find creative ways to express myself.
I’d likely become more observant and patient, which could deepen my relationships in unexpected ways.
Overall, not being able to speak would be a significant adjustment, but with the right tools and support, I think it’s possible to adapt and still lead a fulfilling life.
